“Friends……”

February 18, 2010

Human Being is a species, that cant live alone.
Its the only one species that can chat,express feelings,achieve anything what they wish etc.This is a fact,that no can live alone.A child is born to parents,he knows them,shares every thing with them up to his adolescence and after that too.In all his life time he came across various relationships,persons,personalities,accidents,events,etc. HE remember them all ,but one relation which he develops by himself by going in the outer world,by which he nurture himself,whom he can never forgot throughout his life time,is FRIENDSHIP….

A topic which has no ends.If somebody start on speaking or writing about his friends ,he will never at any point stop in describing them.A topic which has no bounds,limitless.FRIENDS this word is a very precious word.Every one has friends.From the birth to death we came across friends in locality,school ,college,offices,pen friends,internet friends,accidental friends(while traveling,visiting other colleges etc).A few enters yours heart , and you don’t want to loose them.The person lying in this criteria are the closest friends, i mean to say best friends for ever…….

Realization of friends doesn’t occurs when you are with them,it is felt when u are alone.

You cant live without friends.Life is heaven when you are with,friends.Enjoying gossiping,teasing,sharing feelings etc with friends.You cant forgot those moments,spent with yours friends throughout yours life.School days,a replica of childish nature.You cant understand the IMPORTANCE of FRIENDSHIP at that stage of life.Selfish nature predominates in friendship at this level.College life a stage where again we meet new friends, few of us get opportunity to meet friends from others parts of country, religion and culture.At this point of time,majority of the students enjoy and taste the sweetness of friendship.Roaming with friends in college campus,enjoying at the cafeterias,bunking classes,commenting ,proxies in lectures etc etc.

Many make a strong career, many make strong friends,and some like me wants to make both.Friends are the only thing we are gonna miss after college.College is the reason,where we meet after semesters and semesters.When these will be over, no more reasons to meet,but still we will remember…..Its the phase where you will get true friends.This doesn’t mean,after college no one can make friends.Its on the God,when he will send a strong and sounding friend for you.But,its the college life where you can get the experience of phenomenon called FRIENDSHIP.Friends should be encouraging ones.

I was once questioned by a teacher,to speak on friendship.At that time when i answered that “Its a phenomenon of life” ,and whole class laughed.But its true, its a phenomenon that exists in every one’s life.Friends at offices,work,later on life etc also plays an important role in life.But college friends (never again….)
Word are endless,to write on this topic….
I am too,realizing this in the final semester of my life,at college.
This topic is first of all dedicated to GOD, giving me so nice friends.Dedicated to all my friends.Want to mention names of some at the end of this topic-With nick names-Lalla,Farman khan,Sudha,Yogi,Pinky,period,ashish,biren and many more( college friends),ssb friends (Sashank Tandon,Pawan Shrivastav,Harsh Sir,Deepak Sharma) school friends (Fuden,U Banerjee) Internet Friends (A to Z).


Luck…..

February 13, 2010

Was recollecting form the past experiences…..
that a factor plays an important role besides hard work and all efforts…..

Many people don’t believe in this fact.They consider there’s success is the result of hard work etc.Of course hard work is there behind every work and success but hard work only pays when luck is with you.
So,finally i came to a conclusion that

LUCK a great factor,if it goes high you will be an emperor,if it goes low you will be a loser.

You will notice some changes,signals around you before something excellent is going to happen,but those events,signals,changes are realized later on. Many people work on hard continuously, for hours and hours to achieve there goals .They succeed to achieve them but only a very few with superior luck excels to top in that field….
Frankly saying there’s a proverb in Hindi –“Jab khuda meharbaan toh gadha pehalwann” means all is luck and nothing else.
I had seen many experiences, in case of me and mine friends. Think, of the up most success,you have got in yours life and also think once that luck was behind it or not……..
You will definitely find a close relationship between achieved success and luck.
Great kings ,leaders,thinkers,inventors,warriors etc are a mixture of hard work and luck.
You can win a battle with courage and luck.
Closing the topic with this short discussion,i will say that ITS THE luck that is behind every SUCCESS.


“I AM BACK…”

February 13, 2010

Was out of writing for many months.
Today realized ,when i saw a mail showing mine Indiblogger rank 25.
I know,that i can write .I want to write.Its my hobby.Its my ultimate desire .Was busy these last months.

So i am back again….
There’s a lot of events, adventures,places i visited to share ……
Sorry to all who usually visits mines blog…..
At last Thanks to Indiblogger Once again.


True relations are churned up, during Bad times……….

April 13, 2009

Hard (bad) time or good time ………
Performance of an individual matters….
Life composed of both hard and happy moments.Every one can perform well and extra-ordinary in these exciting (happy) moments of life,but a warrior is one,who performs up to expectations in hard moments.Situations,friends,relatives and even the world around you will show changes,whenever this tough time sounds in anyone’s life.
Life is full of these hard and soft moments.
Time is the enigmatic healer of deeper wounds.Hard time will show you the real picture of this world around you.You will definitely found changes in the outer world whether,in behavior of yours friends,relatives,colleagues,neighbors and any activity related to you.Despite going through these hard moments of life,this time will show you the hidden faces of your dear ones.

Since there are two faces(hard and good ) of life,but the hard phase of yours life will reflect the real picture of yous near ones.A true relation is one which does not let you alone even in these unhappy moments of yours life,whether this relation may be in the form of friend or any relatives etc.

As this time will show you many unpleasant situations,downs and downs.So,never underestimate yourself in this( precious) time as it will regain yours life with true relations,friends,neighbors and colleagues etc.Not having more stuff to go on further on this topic,so ends here saying……
true relations are churned up during Bad times


“Love to live,live to love…”

March 18, 2009

Love to live,or live to love ……………….
Quite confusing isn’t it ????
Love is a fact,that joins all of us.Starting thought that should be present in every one that “Love yourself first,then world around will love you”.Don’t ever think that you are ugly and don’t be proud that you are beautiful.An ugly person have some characteristics that are beautiful in some other respects or a bad person may have some sinister features.
When the above “perception” of loving yourself changes,then “Love your parents” as they are the beautiful asset provided by God.Love can’t be created can’t be destroyed also !!!!
Love (feelings) came from heart and can’t be changed(destroyed) to hatred.Love still persists ,hidden in some corner of heart,even if we show something else(hatred).
Learn to love ,as it doesn’t require any guidance,teaching etc…
Love urs friends “as they are the precious gift that you will never accomplish in yours life”.

Love children ” as they are the beautiful flowers that bliss every time…………………………..”.

Love the nature around yourself and feel every moment the love shown by nature towards you.”

Love yours village “where you were sent by God to perform the duties designated by him”

Love the country ” in the girth of which you are being reared up,whose air you are

breathing,whose grains we are eating”.

Love your school,college,university “where u had learnt the morals of life”

Love your teachers “who moulds your way of thinking,character,etc…”

Love the people around u “so that social aspects can be maintained and help them as a task of God

performed by u”.

Love the profession ” you are dealt with as this will motivate you to help mankind..”

At last i can say that love people,children,humanity….., God will definately love you as his favourite creation on earth.


“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”

March 3, 2009

Control on self is a part of character that must be present in every body or it must be achieved during time.It is a type of management that must be learnt.It’s phenomenon must be applied from day to day life

Excess of everything is worse.Excess eating,drinking,playing and even excess studying is also bad.Everything in limits is desirable for a proper and accretionary growth.We must have control on ours bad and well as good habits.Desires,sex,greed,anger are some of the bad qualities that must be in control.

Now the question that arises in every ones mind is-

” How to control ????? ”

As far as i think without control over yours mind you can’t control over things popularly known as ” Indriyaan” in hindi literature.Only great people,yogi’s,saints, have control over these “Indriyaan” 1.Kam (Lust) 2. Krodh (Rage) 3. Lobh (Greed) 4. Moh (Attachment) 5. Ahankar (Ego).

Life must be focused on ” How to control on them”.
Saints who have no relation with worldly alluring things can achieve this position.Spiritually speaking this position can be achieved by meditation,yoga etc.
Dreams are accompanied by desires.If you have control over yours desires( or greed),you will have no regrets of not achieving them.
“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”Change the structure of mind to controlling actions.
Once you will practice controlling,naturally u will become adaptive to restrain features of mind.

“Anger(anger)” is an another feature that refrained.Its a poison that can destroy urs relationships,degrades yours social position etc.
Ahankar in the positive direction is fruitful.It reflects yours efficiency, confidence,power.But over confidence must not be there.Practicing(in ones working area,profession,activities) must be done in order to give stabilization & increase yours ego.
Powers are always given to those who have control on self.All have special powers in them like-managerial,teaching,spiritual,leader ism etc.All the process needed is to carven it.Now u can carve it by controlling yours mind.So everyone must develop a phenomenon,or system to conrolllllll……