True relations are churned up, during Bad times……….

April 13, 2009

Hard (bad) time or good time ………
Performance of an individual matters….
Life composed of both hard and happy moments.Every one can perform well and extra-ordinary in these exciting (happy) moments of life,but a warrior is one,who performs up to expectations in hard moments.Situations,friends,relatives and even the world around you will show changes,whenever this tough time sounds in anyone’s life.
Life is full of these hard and soft moments.
Time is the enigmatic healer of deeper wounds.Hard time will show you the real picture of this world around you.You will definitely found changes in the outer world whether,in behavior of yours friends,relatives,colleagues,neighbors and any activity related to you.Despite going through these hard moments of life,this time will show you the hidden faces of your dear ones.

Since there are two faces(hard and good ) of life,but the hard phase of yours life will reflect the real picture of yous near ones.A true relation is one which does not let you alone even in these unhappy moments of yours life,whether this relation may be in the form of friend or any relatives etc.

As this time will show you many unpleasant situations,downs and downs.So,never underestimate yourself in this( precious) time as it will regain yours life with true relations,friends,neighbors and colleagues etc.Not having more stuff to go on further on this topic,so ends here saying……
true relations are churned up during Bad times

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“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”

March 3, 2009

Control on self is a part of character that must be present in every body or it must be achieved during time.It is a type of management that must be learnt.It’s phenomenon must be applied from day to day life

Excess of everything is worse.Excess eating,drinking,playing and even excess studying is also bad.Everything in limits is desirable for a proper and accretionary growth.We must have control on ours bad and well as good habits.Desires,sex,greed,anger are some of the bad qualities that must be in control.

Now the question that arises in every ones mind is-

” How to control ????? ”

As far as i think without control over yours mind you can’t control over things popularly known as ” Indriyaan” in hindi literature.Only great people,yogi’s,saints, have control over these “Indriyaan” 1.Kam (Lust) 2. Krodh (Rage) 3. Lobh (Greed) 4. Moh (Attachment) 5. Ahankar (Ego).

Life must be focused on ” How to control on them”.
Saints who have no relation with worldly alluring things can achieve this position.Spiritually speaking this position can be achieved by meditation,yoga etc.
Dreams are accompanied by desires.If you have control over yours desires( or greed),you will have no regrets of not achieving them.
“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”Change the structure of mind to controlling actions.
Once you will practice controlling,naturally u will become adaptive to restrain features of mind.

“Anger(anger)” is an another feature that refrained.Its a poison that can destroy urs relationships,degrades yours social position etc.
Ahankar in the positive direction is fruitful.It reflects yours efficiency, confidence,power.But over confidence must not be there.Practicing(in ones working area,profession,activities) must be done in order to give stabilization & increase yours ego.
Powers are always given to those who have control on self.All have special powers in them like-managerial,teaching,spiritual,leader ism etc.All the process needed is to carven it.Now u can carve it by controlling yours mind.So everyone must develop a phenomenon,or system to conrolllllll……