“Love to live,live to love…”

March 18, 2009

Love to live,or live to love ……………….
Quite confusing isn’t it ????
Love is a fact,that joins all of us.Starting thought that should be present in every one that “Love yourself first,then world around will love you”.Don’t ever think that you are ugly and don’t be proud that you are beautiful.An ugly person have some characteristics that are beautiful in some other respects or a bad person may have some sinister features.
When the above “perception” of loving yourself changes,then “Love your parents” as they are the beautiful asset provided by God.Love can’t be created can’t be destroyed also !!!!
Love (feelings) came from heart and can’t be changed(destroyed) to hatred.Love still persists ,hidden in some corner of heart,even if we show something else(hatred).
Learn to love ,as it doesn’t require any guidance,teaching etc…
Love urs friends “as they are the precious gift that you will never accomplish in yours life”.

Love children ” as they are the beautiful flowers that bliss every time…………………………..”.

Love the nature around yourself and feel every moment the love shown by nature towards you.”

Love yours village “where you were sent by God to perform the duties designated by him”

Love the country ” in the girth of which you are being reared up,whose air you are

breathing,whose grains we are eating”.

Love your school,college,university “where u had learnt the morals of life”

Love your teachers “who moulds your way of thinking,character,etc…”

Love the people around u “so that social aspects can be maintained and help them as a task of God

performed by u”.

Love the profession ” you are dealt with as this will motivate you to help mankind..”

At last i can say that love people,children,humanity….., God will definately love you as his favourite creation on earth.


“New Face Of Indian Culture “

March 13, 2009

Reading this topic u will realize that i am a bit conservative in nature and thoughts,but realities are facts that must be shared with everyone.
India known as the land of culture ,traditions,customs,beliefs etc,but this defination no longer exists.Indian culture is deteriorating day by day,place to place.Starting from the home,now days joint family system has been totally disintegrated and single family had superseded it.

Children who use to get love and affection from there grandparents in earlier days no longer exists.Lot of qualities were found in individuals reared under the guidance of grandparents like respectful and helpful behavior,responsibility,understanding situations etc.
But today situation is so much drastic that “Young generation doesn’t want to live with there parents after marriage”.Old age homes are the result of that.They don’t realize the importance of having parents and the sin they are doing in neglecting them.

People usually say “Parents hold position next to god “and in my ideas “even ahead of God”.
Blessing of parents have long-lasting effect.Don’t this generation realize that they will have to face the same situations when they will be older.Sins done today will definitely show there colours one day.

Secondly,present generation is greatly influenced by western culture.Boys use to look like girls and girls use to look like boys.Boys have long hair,wearing ear rings etc all popularly known as fashion.Girls have every short hair,short dresses.
Cinema is equally responsible for this.Results are inter-caste,inter-religion marriages,concept of living relationship etc.Percentage of love marriages have been increased,but there’s unsuccessful ratio had also increased.
Thirdly,the image of so called guru( teacher) had fallen,and so the thinking of the student.Quality of education had fallen a lot.Previously students use to worship there Guru’s as god ,and now days they are abusing them.Alcoholism,taking drugs at younger age,smoking,ragging etc bad qualities are nurturing a lot in younger generation.
Taking the political view,leaders are not performing there duties as performed by great Indian leaders earlier.
Money has become the primary moto and not duties,responsibilities work etc.

Regionalism,that we are north Indians ,they are south Indians is the most prevailing thought that is superceding the aspect of Indian ism.We are demanding, fighting for the separate regions like “Gorkha ,naksals,separate telangana etc.We must realize that we belong to a land where diversified cultures,traditions,religions,languages,climate,caste ,colour,creed etc are existing from many years.
“Unity in diversity”exists which must mat be destroyed.
So summarizing, i can say that there are many more aspects in which our culture is deteriorating…
“Revolution in mind is necessary to stop all this…”

“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”

March 3, 2009

Control on self is a part of character that must be present in every body or it must be achieved during time.It is a type of management that must be learnt.It’s phenomenon must be applied from day to day life

Excess of everything is worse.Excess eating,drinking,playing and even excess studying is also bad.Everything in limits is desirable for a proper and accretionary growth.We must have control on ours bad and well as good habits.Desires,sex,greed,anger are some of the bad qualities that must be in control.

Now the question that arises in every ones mind is-

” How to control ????? ”

As far as i think without control over yours mind you can’t control over things popularly known as ” Indriyaan” in hindi literature.Only great people,yogi’s,saints, have control over these “Indriyaan” 1.Kam (Lust) 2. Krodh (Rage) 3. Lobh (Greed) 4. Moh (Attachment) 5. Ahankar (Ego).

Life must be focused on ” How to control on them”.
Saints who have no relation with worldly alluring things can achieve this position.Spiritually speaking this position can be achieved by meditation,yoga etc.
Dreams are accompanied by desires.If you have control over yours desires( or greed),you will have no regrets of not achieving them.
“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”Change the structure of mind to controlling actions.
Once you will practice controlling,naturally u will become adaptive to restrain features of mind.

“Anger(anger)” is an another feature that refrained.Its a poison that can destroy urs relationships,degrades yours social position etc.
Ahankar in the positive direction is fruitful.It reflects yours efficiency, confidence,power.But over confidence must not be there.Practicing(in ones working area,profession,activities) must be done in order to give stabilization & increase yours ego.
Powers are always given to those who have control on self.All have special powers in them like-managerial,teaching,spiritual,leader ism etc.All the process needed is to carven it.Now u can carve it by controlling yours mind.So everyone must develop a phenomenon,or system to conrolllllll……