But have to ever thought of the heroes who die for there country and given only a medal in view of there sacrifice towards the country…..
Country must respect and honor there sacrifice….
There sacrifice must not go in vain.I only want to say that,people know about Sharukh khan,Sachin tendulkar,Yuvraj singh,Akshay kumar etc etc,but real time heroes must be remembered other wise who will sacrifice for the nation ….
MOST PEOPLE will be still confused that what i am talking about.Guys i am talking about the sacrifice done by the the defense personnel’s…
Only giving a medal in lieu of the sacrifice in not what they sacrificed there life…
They must be remembered so that young generation must take right idols in life..
Stories about there courage must be published,lessons about there life from becoming plant to tree must be taught in schools.Families of those persons must be honored…posters of those brave guys must be there in market so that people can know about there ‘s ideology….

I am not saying that, do some thing hifi for them ,but they must be remembered every year….
I am discussing all this becoz most people don’t know the name of any param veer chakra vijeta the highest gallantry award given by Indian government…
I am shameful to say that in a few years even people will EVEN remember there name.They are mostly remembered whenever war is there….
Government can give crore of rupees to world cup winners,to actors,but is government is ashamed of giving some help to all those people who died for hind…who died for there motherland….
But this help will never come unless youth will take action …..but how youth will remember….as no where any topic of these guys are discussed…
There are real heroes in my eyes .i like actors ,sportsmen .But when ever i read about the gallantry shown by these people,I feel something which i cant explain from heart….

From Punjab to Assam ,from Jammu and Kashmir to Kanyakumari ,whole land had produced warriors who led there country to pride,who sacrificed there lives to save ours,who were in battlefields when everyone was sleeping,who were surrounded by enemies when every one of us was with our relatives.
There sacrifice in unforgettable.There are many who gave there life for this country and nation and people of this nation must respect them ...names of theses guys are only found on ssb centers or in defense academies.There stories must be published so that every children of this country must put his name before any actor,politician ,sportsman.
They must remember there names with pride.Here are the few names but list in too long …………..

TO KNOW ABOUT THEM

A topic which has no ends.If somebody start on speaking or writing about his friends ,he will never at any point stop in describing them.A topic which has no bounds,limitless.FRIENDS this word is a very precious word.Every one has friends.From the birth to death we came across friends in locality,school ,college,offices,pen friends,internet friends,accidental friends(while traveling,visiting other colleges etc).A few enters yours heart , and you don’t want to loose them.The person lying in this criteria are the closest friends, i mean to say best friends for ever…….

Realization of friends doesn’t occurs when you are with them,it is felt when u are alone.

You cant live without friends.Life is heaven when you are with,friends.Enjoying gossiping,teasing,sharing feelings etc with friends.You cant forgot those moments,spent with yours friends throughout yours life.School days,a replica of childish nature.You cant understand the IMPORTANCE of FRIENDSHIP at that stage of life.Selfish nature predominates in friendship at this level.College life a stage where again we meet new friends, few of us get opportunity to meet friends from others parts of country, religion and culture.At this point of time,majority of the students enjoy and taste the sweetness of friendship.Roaming with friends in college campus,enjoying at the cafeterias,bunking classes,commenting ,proxies in lectures etc etc.

Many make a strong career, many make strong friends,and some like me wants to make both.Friends are the only thing we are gonna miss after college.College is the reason,where we meet after semesters and semesters.When these will be over, no more reasons to meet,but still we will remember…..Its the phase where you will get true friends.This doesn’t mean,after college no one can make friends.Its on the God,when he will send a strong and sounding friend for you.But,its the college life where you can get the experience of phenomenon called FRIENDSHIP.Friends should be encouraging ones.

I was once questioned by a teacher,to speak on friendship.At that time when i answered that “Its a phenomenon of life” ,and whole class laughed.But its true, its a phenomenon that exists in every one’s life.Friends at offices,work,later on life etc also plays an important role in life.But college friends (never again….)
Word are endless,to write on this topic….
I am too,realizing this in the final semester of my life,at college.
This topic is first of all dedicated to GOD, giving me so nice friends.Dedicated to all my friends.Want to mention names of some at the end of this topic-With nick names-Lalla,Farman khan,Sudha,Yogi,Pinky,period,ashish,biren and many more( college friends),ssb friends (Sashank Tandon,Pawan Shrivastav,Harsh Sir,Deepak Sharma) school friends (Fuden,U Banerjee) Internet Friends (A to Z).

Many people don’t believe in this fact.They consider there’s success is the result of hard work etc.Of course hard work is there behind every work and success but hard work only pays when luck is with you.
So,finally i came to a conclusion that

LUCK a great factor,if it goes high you will be an emperor,if it goes low you will be a loser.

You will notice some changes,signals around you before something excellent is going to happen,but those events,signals,changes are realized later on. Many people work on hard continuously, for hours and hours to achieve there goals .They succeed to achieve them but only a very few with superior luck excels to top in that field….
Frankly saying there’s a proverb in Hindi -“Jab khuda meharbaan toh gadha pehalwann” means all is luck and nothing else.
I had seen many experiences, in case of me and mine friends. Think, of the up most success,you have got in yours life and also think once that luck was behind it or not……..
You will definitely find a close relationship between achieved success and luck.
Great kings ,leaders,thinkers,inventors,warriors etc are a mixture of hard work and luck.
You can win a battle with courage and luck.
Closing the topic with this short discussion,i will say that ITS THE luck that is behind every SUCCESS.

So i am back again….
There’s a lot of events, adventures,places i visited to share ……
Sorry to all who usually visits mines blog…..
At last Thanks to Indiblogger Once again.

Since there are two faces(hard and good ) of life,but the hard phase of yours life will reflect the real picture of yous near ones.A true relation is one which does not let you alone even in these unhappy moments of yours life,whether this relation may be in the form of friend or any relatives etc.

As this time will show you many unpleasant situations,downs and downs.So,never underestimate yourself in this( precious) time as it will regain yours life with true relations,friends,neighbors and colleagues etc.Not having more stuff to go on further on this topic,so ends here saying……
true relations are churned up during Bad times

Love children ” as they are the beautiful flowers that bliss every time…………………………..”.

Love the nature “ around yourself and feel every moment the love shown by nature towards you.”

Love yours village “where you were sent by God to perform the duties designated by him”

Love the country ” in the girth of which you are being reared up,whose air you are

breathing,whose grains we are eating”.

Love your school,college,university “where u had learnt the morals of life”

Love your teachers “who moulds your way of thinking,character,etc…”

Love the people around u “so that social aspects can be maintained and help them as a task of God

performed by u”.

Love the profession ” you are dealt with as this will motivate you to help mankind..”

At last i can say that love people,children,humanity….., God will definately love you as his favourite creation on earth.

Children who use to get love and affection from there grandparents in earlier days no longer exists.Lot of qualities were found in individuals reared under the guidance of grandparents like respectful and helpful behavior,responsibility,understanding situations etc.
But today situation is so much drastic that “Young generation doesn’t want to live with there parents after marriage”.Old age homes are the result of that.They don’t realize the importance of having parents and the sin they are doing in neglecting them.

People usually say “Parents hold position next to god “and in my ideas “even ahead of God”.
Blessing of parents have long-lasting effect.Don’t this generation realize that they will have to face the same situations when they will be older.Sins done today will definitely show there colours one day.

Secondly,present generation is greatly influenced by western culture.Boys use to look like girls and girls use to look like boys.Boys have long hair,wearing ear rings etc all popularly known as fashion.Girls have every short hair,short dresses.
Cinema is equally responsible for this.Results are inter-caste,inter-religion marriages,concept of living relationship etc.Percentage of love marriages have been increased,but there’s unsuccessful ratio had also increased.
Thirdly,the image of so called guru( teacher) had fallen,and so the thinking of the student.Quality of education had fallen a lot.Previously students use to worship there Guru’s as god ,and now days they are abusing them.Alcoholism,taking drugs at younger age,smoking,ragging etc bad qualities are nurturing a lot in younger generation.
Taking the political view,leaders are not performing there duties as performed by great Indian leaders earlier.
Money has become the primary moto and not duties,responsibilities work etc.

Regionalism,that we are north Indians ,they are south Indians is the most prevailing thought that is superceding the aspect of Indian ism.We are demanding, fighting for the separate regions like “Gorkha ,naksals,separate telangana etc.We must realize that we belong to a land where diversified cultures,traditions,religions,languages,climate,caste ,colour,creed etc are existing from many years.
“Unity in diversity”exists which must mat be destroyed.
So summarizing, i can say that there are many more aspects in which our culture is deteriorating…
“Revolution in mind is necessary to stop all this…”

Excess of everything is worse.Excess eating,drinking,playing and even excess studying is also bad.Everything in limits is desirable for a proper and accretionary growth.We must have control on ours bad and well as good habits.Desires,sex,greed,anger are some of the bad qualities that must be in control.

Now the question that arises in every ones mind is-

” How to control ????? ”

As far as i think without control over yours mind you can’t control over things popularly known as ” Indriyaan” in hindi literature.Only great people,yogi’s,saints, have control over these “Indriyaan” 1.Kam (Lust) 2. Krodh (Rage) 3. Lobh (Greed) 4. Moh (Attachment) 5. Ahankar (Ego).

Life must be focused on ” How to control on them”.
Saints who have no relation with worldly alluring things can achieve this position.Spiritually speaking this position can be achieved by meditation,yoga etc.
Dreams are accompanied by desires.If you have control over yours desires( or greed),you will have no regrets of not achieving them.
“Learn to control on yourself, to serve humanity.”Change the structure of mind to controlling actions.
Once you will practice controlling,naturally u will become adaptive to restrain features of mind.

“Anger(anger)” is an another feature that refrained.Its a poison that can destroy urs relationships,degrades yours social position etc.
Ahankar in the positive direction is fruitful.It reflects yours efficiency, confidence,power.But over confidence must not be there.Practicing(in ones working area,profession,activities) must be done in order to give stabilization & increase yours ego.
Powers are always given to those who have control on self.All have special powers in them like-managerial,teaching,spiritual,leader ism etc.All the process needed is to carven it.Now u can carve it by controlling yours mind.So everyone must develop a phenomenon,or system to conrolllllll……

Various questions can come to urs mind like.WHETHER God exists or not etc.
There are various methods, which can realize u that there is an almighty which exist,who is controlling this world, nature,humanity.
Exploring God in temples,mosques,church is not only the primary requisite.
Explore God in yourself,in urs friends,people and in humanity.We are a portion of God performing work what he had already written in our destiny.We are the creatures that are performing our duties under his order.
What problems we are facing today are due to the sins we had done in our past.
Cursing God for ur problems,diseases studies etc is a bad habit.
What had written in urs fortune it will definitely going to happen.He is the “Almighty”who does every thing that is helpful,beneficial to the humanity,nature and this universe.

God is hidden in yourself,all we had to do is “Exploration,realization”
Swami Vivekananda when asked a question to his GURU-Rama Krishna Paramhansa that -”Have u seen GOD ?”
He answered that-”I see God by seeing u”.
So,we can conclude that religion are only the paths that lead us to God.

Ques-Every one in this universe had an insurance in Banks etc.,but what about the insurance that is going to help after we are DEAD?
Ans- All the good work,things we had done to society,humanity,worshiping God etc are the parts of life which can increase our insurance.
Soul is an integral part of our body.Soul must be bathed by good thoughts,feelings,etc.
It is the efficiency of the SOUL which counts for urs selection in “Hell or Heaven”.

All the above discussion will be like a myth for ” Younger GENERATION”.But i realize that there is a power that is guiding this world
Nature is an another face of God.Whenever the balance of nature is disturbed,it brings earthquakes,floods,famines,volcanoes.To maintain a balance “Eco friendly act must be there”.

Meditation ant to some extent Yoga can lead us to god.GURU is also necessary for this….
He can act as a link to connect us to god.With the advancement of technology new generation is confused about the “existence of God”.It is the duty of the parents ,that they must give knowledge of ALMIGHTY,Custom,traditions of our forefathers.
So in the end i can say that “If u believe in GOD,the world will believe in u” .

Taking first life as an art.Art of life means-Does yours life has an effect on others, still living or when u are died.
There is a pronounced line called “Art of Living”,whose meaning remain same “Impactness of urs precious life on others.
Simple living and high thinking should be urs main motto.People are playing there role under the conscience of GOD.He (GOD) had given us opportunity to set an example for others.Life may be of short duration but its impact must be of large duration.

Life,degree of happiness changes with time.Time brings changes in life.Life means “Variations”.How urs life has changed from school boy,to a college guy and to adult.Dont u think there’s a change,whether it is in way of thinking,behavior,life styles.
Desires and time are integral features of LIFE.During life time desires are not finished,increasing day to day.

“Life Time” should be better pronounced as “Time Life”…………
Life Time means “What a person had done or achieved during his entire life time” and Time life means “How u had changed,lived,reproduced urs life with time”.

LIFE is a LITERATURE…
Literature of struggle,desires,motivation,passion,sex,interdependence,variations,development etc..
The conceal secrets of SPIRITUAL life delve out after get deceased.
So at last i can say “Life is still an unrevealed secret”